Confidence is the key- Part II

So I shared conversations between me and one of my friend yesterday on blog and one of my friend has read it through, she was convinced by every single words and sentence he wrote for me. Couldn't agree more.
His word just make so much sense, and it caught us thinking.
Here then I decided to scroll up because I remembered he sent me more previously, again, when I had a rough time back then in work.

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( Few months back), I was having difficulties in my internship, probably because I haven't get myself ready enough to face the problems, and doesn't know how things work, culture shock, at the end I didn't manage to handle it well.
So on my way to class in a weekend morning, I still vividly remember I whats app him while waiting for the train.
This is how it goes.
Me:  Hey, you there? I've something to tell you, its a long stories btw..
A:    Hey tell me :) 
Me:  Starting my grandmother stories, and I type every single detail ( tbh a bit too much lol )
A:  I'm glad you're feeling this way. I know how you feel :) That's how hard it is to earn money in the future. I learned it myself when I was working before I left for Europe. 2 months.
Well, sometimes you've got to search around, and see what motivates you. Internships are a good opportunity for you to get out into the world and learn from others. Get to know them, learn about people's struggles, impress your bosses so you can be their friends. What they say to you could impact your life a lot. But whatever it is, don't slow down. I'm glad you're feeling like that. Life shouldn't be just comfortable :) 
You won't enjoy it as much if it were. You'll look back and you will think that you've learned a lot from it. But for now, just be patient, and enjoy it :) Take it in with a positive attitude that's all you can do. Stop worrying. It won't add another day to your life. Sometimes we just gotta take a complain and turn it into something good. :)
You've got everything to impress people. It starts not with your skills, but your attitude. You may not realize it, but a good attitude can affect someone's else life tremendously.
So, BE CONFIDENT. TAKE RISKS. BE STRONG. DON'T LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF.
My mom says confidence is the best attribute in life. And it's the most attractive one. Be confident, you're doing so well! 
Come on Man, You're Teoh Shu Ling. Look at the mirror and practice: My name is Teoh Shu Ling. Until you think people will impressed .
Me: Spot on. I've no confidence. every time, everywhere, whatever it is.
A: It's ok. Never be too late. Remember. Confidence is KEY. 
Me: I guess sometimes what pulls me down is the fact that I didn't did well in things, the reality proves. Eventually, the level goes down and down..
A: It's not important. Those things aren't important Shu Ling. And who says you're bad. Only you. Don't kick yourself. You gotta learn to wake up and appreciate yourself more everyday. You're not a nuisance to people. You're a blessing. Tell yourself that, no one else can. No one is pulling you down, no one is expecting you to do anything. Just BE YOURSELF and Confident. 
Me: Okay. :) Hmm
A: Hey, toughen up lady! Toughen up. I've absolute confidence in you. 


Another short one to shared. Close friend will definitely know who am I saying, and most of them understands why I love to mentioned him, caz his words are always so convincing and make sense.
It takes time to apply it, but every time I read it, I gotta tell myself, It should be the way.

xx

Thank You for ur words. It just make so much sense to me. 

Event: Graduation for Law.