Monday, April 28, 2014

You are the one.

'True friends are people you want to be with to have a good time, but they are also the ones you have to be with when you’re having a hard time.'

I experienced a moment of bliss when I found someone who understands me so much and is willing to take time to listen to what I have to say.
They've seen me at my best, and also at my worst.

* They make supportive comments. 
They make me feel needed, feel confident and better about being alive. Basically, they are my cheerleader.

* They listen to me
I've so much crap to say. I'm wasting their time and they don't have to listen to my grandmother stories because they doesn't benefit from it and there is non of their business. Yet, they listen and share thoughts and gives me feedback. They maintain their eye-contact with me, listen carefully and even remember what I've say. Of course, she shared things to me as well. 

* Communications
Seems like they know what I'm feeling and thinking. I guess sometime we just have to be on the same pg. It's important to talk things out and sometimes when I don't/she don't, there is a problem. 

* Gossip/saying bad things
We love some juicy gossip occasionally but we don't go out of control. 

* They make time for me
No matter how busy they are, phone date, lunch date, skype date, are always on schedule. Again, distance is not a problem. Of course we don't see each other everyday, even up to a month but still, I know she remembers so the next second, my phone rang. 

* 50/50
We both make the same amount of effort. Well I guess this is pretty hard as I don't think we should weight. However,  I felt that if both make a similar effort to hang out and get it touch, this will be a good friendship.

* Other reason being your friend
Not because of convenient, boredam, popularity. I valued you as a person and I valued our friendship.

They make me feel valuable, they make me feel happy and make me feel good about myself. I felt they feel excited of my presence and I'm so thankful for that, even I make stupid jokes and silly things just to make them laugh. I might be a insane person walking and talking but I'm happy because they are, at the first place.

Came across this article today and #sotrue, I wanted to jot it down.
I talked to Eunice and Skype with Hoon yesterday and I feel so good and relieve after that.
With family and true friends, my life is complete. Thank you God.

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